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Approaching the holiday season after a divorce

On Behalf of | Dec 12, 2021 | Divorce |

After going through the end of a marriage, there may be many parents in Georgia and elsewhere who have concerns about how best to approach holiday planning. Creating a schedule that works for both parents and limiting conflict while discussing such matters can seem a daunting task at times. Parents who are facing a similar situation after a divorce could benefit from seeking insight on ways to help promote a healthier and less stressful atmosphere when planning for the holiday season. 

Studies indicate that there could be several factors to keep in mind while planning for the holidays, some of which could prove integral to safeguarding the well-being of the kids. Some examples of things to keep in mind may include: 

  • Needs of the kids:  Setting aside one’s feelings and placing the needs of the kids at the forefront of holiday scheduling discussions could prove integral to creating amicable and acceptable visitation schedules. 
  • Make plans early:  Taking steps to communicate with the other parent about holiday plans early on could also help provide sufficient time to find a schedule that works best for everyone. 
  • Be flexible:  By understanding that this can be a stressful process for everyone involved, one may also be better prepared to take a more flexible approach to the process. 
  • Limit conflict:  Should discussions about holiday schedules lead to conflict, taking steps to ensure the kids are not exposed to disagreements could be vital to safeguarding their well-being. 

It could also be helpful to communicate with the other parent about intentions for holiday gifts for the kids, as this could also help limit confusion and conflict. 

Approaching the holiday season after a divorce can be daunting at times, but one may be able to reduce some of the stress involved with proper planning. Individuals who are facing the end of a marriage and have concerns about how to approach similar aspects of a parenting plan may find it helpful to speak with a family law attorney for guidance. An attorney in Georgia can work toward answering all a client’s questions and concerns and assist in pursuing a child custody agreement that best aligns with his or her wishes and the needs of the kids. 


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